The Magic Of Making Up!

I know if you are here right now you are probably in a great deal of heartache and pain. I understand…and I have been there too…and I am not going to belabor on and on about the pain you feel…because I know that you know it all too well…

You already know how hard it is to just even wake up and roll out of bed in the morning. You leave your radio off on your way to work because every song is a painful reminder of him. You can’t even bear to eat at the same restaurants you took her to. And if that isn’t bad enough, you have to cope with the loss of friends and family that are on “their side."

Here’s some good news…

Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!

What if you could recapture your ex lovers mind, heart and soul?…Wipe the slate clean? Turn back time? Even if you feel right now that your situation is too far gone…too screwed up …or just plain too darn complicated?

Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…And it’s okay…let me ask?

Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…Or vice versa?

I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…

Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?

Sure! And I bet you know of…or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have…you know the ones I am talking about…(and I know this is kind of dark)… the girls or guys that are in orally or physically abusive relationships.

Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive…I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable…

Seriously, Doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together…under even some horrible circumstances…that there could be some hidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?

Here’s how I can help you…

If you have broken up and want to get your guy or gal back, obviously I can’t talk too or be with everyone, I just don’t have enough time…but I have done what I believe to be the next best thing…

I have put my years of experience…into a really easy to follow… 

Love recipe for”getting back together”…and again I forewarn you right now…these are techniques and strategies that are NOT conventional wisdom…and I doubt you have ever read or heard these techniques before.

This stuff works!…maybe too well?

Frankly, I get a little freaked out about just how well it works…and worry that it may be used for less than honorable intentions. I mean I want to help GOOD people…I don’t want to help JERKS get girls back that would be better off without them. I do NOT want to help “psycho chick” steal away a married man.

Like a knife, these techniques and principles can be used for great good or grave harm.

This is NOT FOR

-Stalkers

-Ex Convicts

-People with severe mental problems

-Other Crazies, Cuckoos or Whack Jobs

Okay?

Anyway, I have titled the “recipe” simply The Magic Of Making Up…See, it is my opinion that there are really no impossible situations. I have seen women not only wait on a man for months, but take back men that have spent years in prison…and… I have seen men take women back that have had MORE THAN ONE AFFAIR…

And everything else in between! How crazy is that?

And…

You know what?

By now, I bet you really want to see some proof that this works? I would too if I were you.

Here’s PROOF This Works

The best way I know to prove to you that these techniques really work is by giving you some free samples and by showing you testimonials from guys and gals that have already used these techniques successfully.

Now, I also figured that instead of giving you some useless sample…Why not?…make it something you could really use RIGHT NOW? Something that would really be helpful. So here is a little video of me explaining the very first steps you should take immediately after a break up: (This is what Al SHOULD HAVE done.)

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Factor Of Relationships

You may have heard of someone saying that they are
completely happy on their own and all by themselves.

Although this isn’t what appeals to me, I can
understand why some people would think this; the only
relationship they have is with themselves and it’s
hard to mess up a relationship with yourself. It’s
hard to have much satisfaction from that kind of
relationship too.

Relationships with others are what make the world go
around, because it is a thermometer of how we "relate"
to others. Friends can be just like us, or just the
opposite of us, but it is how we relate to them that
feeds our souls.

We can choose to put effort into a relationship or
choose to walk away; but each of us needs other people
around us to make us feel a part of a bigger thing.

The world is full of other people. We can decide to
make friends of some of them and enhance our lives, or
we can choose to remain silent in the elevator or to
not speak to the person at the next table at
Starbucks.

We can stay in our own little world, or we can expand
it to include others, who might enrich us with their
knowledge and personalities. I can open the door, or I
can keep it closed.

I can choose to take what my marriage is giving me or
I can put more into it and reap the rewards. I can be
lazy and think only about what this relationship means
to me, or I can think about how much better it could
be if I put more effort into making sure my spouse
gets as much as s/he gives.

You do get back more than you give to relationships
and relationships will reward you for years in many,
many ways. Nurture those relationships that you need
to keep you happy!

What Ever Happened To The Days of Family Reunions!

Gone are the days where family reunions meant just that, a reunion of all or as much of the entire family lineage partakes in the uniting of families which is located in one accommodating space!


We are busy people. Every one has his or her own life to live, a job to take care of, mouths to feed, dreams to work hard towards, and in the hustle and bustle of life, we tend to forget that we belong to a family unit!

I was dumbstruck when I first knew that my brother who was much younger than me by 9 years had been diagnosed with brain cancer. All at once, life seemed to be so short and mortal.

When I heard this news, my mind seemed to go back in time, rewinding back the moments I have had with my brother when we were young. There he was then, still a young little boy who liked to run behind his 2 older brothers so he can be apart of our mischievous ventures.

Once grown he was the one who remembered special memorable moments and would often remind me of them with a phone call, or sometimes he and his family would show up unannounced as a surprise because he knew just how much this visit makes my heart glad, and would make my day. It has been such a long time I have had spent time with my brothers & sisters, it has been years!

Indeed, when was it the last time you have had made an effort to spend time with your loved ones - perhaps your wife, or your parents, your brothers and sisters...or your closest friends?

We need to let the hustle and bustle of life move on their own, and get back what resembles what is called a "relationship". We must let the many voices of the world that draw us away from the togetherness and love of family and close friends to fade away in the background.

You will find the togetherness that can come from being with a loved one to really fill a vacuum of personal bonding to be very real when you make a conscious effort to be with him or her.

Do not let the voices of the world drown those bonds, but strive to establish bonds of love and togetherness with members of your family.

To me, it is time to make that telephone call to all the members of my family and to make the first step to renew those bonds. What about you?

Vacationing in Cabo San Jose, Cabo Azul Resort

For starts, this place is wonderful, five days of R & R at Cabo Azul Resort Time Shares.
 I would recommend vacationing there to anyone because buying into this timeshare is like
buying a piece of paradise!

So, if you are a individual that already have been taken yearly vacations this would be the
 perfect investment to make for yourself, or and  the family!

This week was our "Reboot", everyone owes it to themselves to treat yourself and those
closes to you first...  My Wife and I took our 10 year old grand daughter, who have never
been out of the country before nor fly in a plain, basically all new to her, from getting the
Passport to Packing Summer Digs for the pool / beach areas, and I have to say she was a
real champ about the whole experience, through aches and pains from one allergic reaction
or another she battled through it all!

Our Traveling buddies were also troopers, they hung in there with us throughout all the inconceivable
pangs a child will take you through when they are ailing!

The vacation was fun but it was time to leave with no time to spare due to the fact that the G20 summit
was starting from 15th through 19th and it started to look like Marshall Law around Cabo and even in
the Resort were metal detectors were setup days before...

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Understanding how to improve your personal life

Its seems like everyone is searching for secrets to health, wealth and happiness. The catch is if you understand yourself, then you would have the knowledge to be both successful in personal relationships and in business relationships. Like everything, this starts with a plan. Whether your looking to improve your relationship with your spouse or family member, or move up the corporate ladder, this is all a result of personal growth. Personal growth starts with doing your best at every moment, in your job, home, or day to day activities. Setting goals, no matter how small enables us to soar to new heights and give us the confidence to achieve more.

Understanding what is important

Many times, people stay hung up on other peoples expectations on what it is to be successful. Each of us has a different idea of what makes us content. It is important to acknowledge that if we spend most of our time and effort trying to reach someone else's goals, then we find ourselves constantly searching for meaning and continue to be unhappy. Realizing what is important is the first step to improving personal life.

Balance

Balance is the key to success. Some people do not see the concept of success beyond their own needs. Often times we are caught up in serving a dominant function, which overshadows our natural strengths. This results in stress and imbalance in ones life. Learning to do things for yourself and your own needs are vital to improving your personal life. If you are always doing for others, and seldom take time out for you, then you are building stress rather than improving life. Your happiness should come first. Finding it hard to say no to others becomes common and we find ourselves so inundated by the needs of other people. Learn to have an even balance in your life with everything you do and focus on what you want is another way to improve your personal life.

Self Esteem

Putting yourself down constantly, finding it hard to accept compliments and wishing you are someone else are easy examples that you may be sabotaging your own life. Encourage positive self talk with yourself and to others, do not speak negative about yourself and others are vital to great self esteem. Understanding that no matter what, you are ok. Improving your self-confidence is extremely important when improving your personal life. This will take putting your positive beliefs in the front of your mind, and day by day taking away the negative thoughts. Believing in you is another key to success.

If you feel like your on the road to stress and anxiety, and want more out of life, slow down and take a step back to evaluate what is important. Remember that other peoples goals are not always our own, learn to balance your everyday and lifestyle decisions, and most importantly, think positive.

Surround yourself around encouraging, not discouraging people. If you just make small steps to do these things, you will already be improving your personal life without realizing it. The key to success is moving forward. You will need to learn steps to move ahead and stop looking back. Of course, history is important, yet you want to avoid dwelling on past mistakes. Your mistakes are learning tools. Use them, learn from the mistakes, and move ahead.

When you surround your self with positive influences, it helps you to gain the power of processing your life. You have control over conversation and your community. Take back your control and you will improve your overall personal life.

How Divorce Effects Your Children!

When a marriage turns into a complete wreck and nothing can ever fix the problem anymore, divorce is the only best option to take. Millions of people prefer to leave their partners when certain aspects of the relationship are no longer smooth sailing as they were before the marriage.

Although divorce may sound and appear easy for some, it actually requires a lot from both parties. Each one needs to get divorce consultations from lawyers and financial specialists to help them in the process. Hence, divorce is not easy, especially for the children. Endless fights for physical custody are usually the toughest moments not only for the separated couple, but also for their children. The children are normally the ones who suffer most when their parents separated.

Effects of divorce on children

According to studies, the children of a divorced couple often:

• Takes the blame on themselves as the reason why their parents need separation. 
• Some kids tend to think that they are the ones responsible for the unsuccessful marriage, thus, resulting to stress and anxiety.
• One of the most notable effects of divorce on children is the sudden change in point of few towards activities and friends that they enjoyed before. 
• Divorce can also cause harmful effects to a child's perspective on relationship and marriage. 
• Some children may view divorce as a betrayal of their patients, hence, compelling them to be afraid and withdrawn from building or fostering future relationships. 
• Some children of a divorced couple often find it hard to gain the trust of anyone while grow up. 

Lessening the effects of divorce on children

It is really up to the parents how they want to make the situation easier for their children. For starters, it is important for separated couple to have their children understand that the divorce is not, in any means, their fault. Another important thing is that the children know that they are safe, secured, and loved by their parents even if they are not together as a family anymore.

Divorced parents should also always be around or available for their children every time they are needed. When it comes to the welfare of the children, the separated couple should still work together in providing for their kids' emotional and financial needs!

Role of a child specialist

In the process of divorce, collaborative lawyers may suggest to their clients the need for the children to have a child specialist who will basically act as the children's voice and guide in the entire duration of the divorce process. A child specialist is the one responsible for explaining in simple detailed terms, the role and rights of the children.

Having a child therapist helps in the sense that the children will not be caught in between their parents during the process of the divorce. Choosing between two adults is hard for any kid. Having a child specialist in the process can also help minimize the emotional difficulties of the children as they cope to accept and try to live a normal life despite having a broken family.

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Dating and Relationships

The youth of today enjoy much freedom when it comes to self-expression as compared to the old days when parents decide for their children even to the point of choosing their lifetime partners. Although some families remained conservative and traditional, the rest of society adapts to a fast-paced lifestyle where convention is out of the the rule and individuality is the name of the game.

In this sexually-permissive culture, it is important to consider what lies ahead for you and for your loved ones, and how you can protect each other from getting Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD).

Awareness of sexual health issues is very important. More than just the absence of the disease or its dysfunction and infirmities, it is also a state of physical, emotional, psychological and social well-being with regards to one's sexuality. Addressing sexual health issues involves a complex web of factors such as attitude, behavior,  genes, environment, and economy.

Sexual health also deals with problems such as STD, HIV, pregnancy, abortion, infertility, cancer, and a wide range of sexual dysfunctions. Those who are in a relationship must not automatically consider an infected partner as being unfaithful. One must learn to practice a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships and this can be achieved if the sexual rights of every individual is respected and protected.

Do not be deceived by mere appearances. Even the healthiest-looking person can be infected by STD. It's not easy to tell if the person beside you has STD, or other illnesses for that matter, just by the way that person looks and acts. There are STDs that do not show any obvious signs. Symptoms can be very subtle that the person infected may not even know it. It is very important that aside from your regular health check-up, you should also take special attention in knowing your own body especially when you are healthy.

So that if any changes take place such as skin infections or sores, as well as any unusual discharge or pain while urinating, it will be easier for you to recognize these signs and symptoms because you already know how your body is like when healthy.

Sexually Transmitted Diseases are diseases caused by by viruses, bacteria and parasites, which can easily be transmitted through body contact during sex. There are at least 25 different sexually transmitted diseases which can be spread by sexual contact, including vaginal, anal and oral sex.

Sometimes, STD takes a long time to display any kind of symptoms. The following are some of the most common STD that affect sexually active individuals: Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Bacterial Vaginosis, Crabs or Pubic Lice, Epididymitis, Genital Herpes, Genital Warts, Gut Infections, Hepatitis, Molluscum, Non-Specific Urethritis, Scabies, Syphilis, Thrush, Trichomonas Vaginosis, Balanitis.

Early detection and treatment of STD is very important to avoid serious infections that may lead to long-term or permanent damage. When left untreated, STD may cause infertility and can be passed on from a pregnant mother to her unborn child. Sexually Transmitted Diseases can be easily passed onto sexual partners and can aid in the transmission of HIV.

One of the surest way to avoid STD is by sexual abstinence. But you don't have to be chaste just to be free of this dreaded STD. The practice of safe sex can greatly help in minimizing risk from STD. Consult with your professional health care provider for advice on getting tested for STD and other sexual health concerns.